Thursday, September 8, 2016

Lessons Learned From Soccer and Chimichurri Too

 
I took a moment after a long weekend to lay back and look at the sky off my deck. It helps me gain perspective and it grounds me at the same time.
 
This weekend I was in Atlanta with Sage for the Atlanta Cup, a soccer tournament. It made me appreciate again why it is so important to me that my kids play sports. Aside from the usual exercise and healthy lifestyle aspects which are obviously very key for people of all ages, there are some subtle (and not so subtle) life lessons to be gained.  
 
Sage and Sosie have been playing soccer since they were 3 or 4 through the Y in Needham. Hundreds of kids would gather on a weekend morning on a field that was almost all dirt because of the years of playing and they would follow the ball around the tiny field as a clump. Some would pick daisies, some would want the ball the whole time and some would have an early sense of position and where to go on the field. But they were out there, learning, taking it in and being a team.
 
This year the rules have changed so that instead of playing with your grade, you are playing with teammates in the same birth year.  Some teams have changed greatly and some teams haven't changed all that much. I would say that Sage's team has changed fairly significantly. Almost half the team is new. Their old team called themselves the Dream Team. They moved from C Division to A Division. They grew pretty significantly, in size and skill but mostly in their ability to be a team. Under some difficult circumstances at times, they were able to pull together and play really hard, with a ton of heart. They left problems on the sidelines and rallied together to play some amazing soccer. That is tough to change. That is tough to leave behind. That is tough to grow past.
 
Their first tournament was a pre-season one. It was the first one as a new team and it was very difficult, for everyone. Not seeing the same parents you have seen for three years. Changing routines, changing positions, changing players. Change. Let's face it. Change is hard. The players weren't in shape yet and not used to each other or used to being on the field together. They absolutely tried but they played as individuals, not yet as a team. There were moments but they weren't a team yet. There were frustrations all around and for the first time in a very long time, they lost all their games and came in last place.
 
The first practice after that tournament they tried harder, together. The first Saturday a group text went out to see if kids wanted to meet and play at a nearby field. They didn't like where they were and wanted to improve. Coach pushed them. Hard. They wanted to use the change to their advantage. They ended up practicing 4 times the week of the next tournament, the Atlanta Cup. And you know what? My daughter told me on the way home that she wished there were more games. She wanted to play more.
 
Who knows how they will do this season? They sure started to look more like a team out there. They sure started to have that fire in the belly that drives you to success. They sure are working out the growing pains and working with the change, instead of against it. They sure were real happy when they played 5 games and won the tournament.  It was a great moment. A simple moment.
 
Put on Curbside Prophet by Jason Mraz and let's get cooking.
 
This summer I rediscovered Chimichurri Sauce and I am so glad I did. First, it has so many lovely memories. We went to our friends' house for dinner one beautiful summer night a few years ago and they made this and it was so delicious I kept eating more steak just so I could spoon the sauce on it. It was a memorable night with my friends. One I won't forget.
 
It was so good I had to have the recipe so that I could make it. I made chimichurri for my friends who hosted me, Sosie and Sage later on in Maine. I passed the yumminess to them. I made it several more times and then I kinda lost track of it. Till this summer!!
 
A friend gave me a plate recently that was given to her and it is meant to be passed along with delicious food on it. Sharing. Sometimes I think recipes are like that. Sharing recipes, sharing food, sharing memories. 
 
So, I thank my friends for making it for me and here I give it to you. It is so versatile. You can use it on chicken, shrimp, fish, steak. As Heidi reminded me, you can use any greens you want-including, mint, arugula, parsely, basil, cilantro, etc......
 
Chimichurri Sauce, Bon Appetit, July 2011
1/2 cup red wine vinegar
1 tsp kosher salt plus more
3-4 garlic cloves, thinly sliced or minced
1 shallot, finely chopped
1 Fresno chile or red jalapeno, finely chopped
1/2 cup minced fresh cilantro
1/4 cup minced fresh flat-leaf parsley
2T finely chopped fresh oregano
3/4 cup EVOO
 
Combine vinegar, 1 tsp salt, garlic, shallot, and chile in a medium bowl and let stand for 10 minutes.
 
 
Stir in cilantro, parsley, and oregano. Using a fork, whisk in oil. Remove 1/2 cup chimichurri to a small bowl, season with salt to taste, and reserve as sauce.
 
 
Put meat in a glass, stainless steel, or ceramic dish. Toss with remaining marinade. Cover and chill for at least 3 hours or overnight.
 
 
Remove meat from marinade, pat dry, and grill.  Spoon reserved sauce over grilled meat.
 
 
 
I served with corn on the cob and tomatoes, mozzarella and leftover pesto. YUM
 

Enjoy and have a great day!

1 comment:

Michelle Hoffmeister said...

Hi Connollys!
Happy to hear from you and about soccer. I miss watching Sage on the field and so strongly believe that teams that bond and work together to improve as a team can achieve so many things on and off the field. Such good life lessons. Good luck with the season and I might try that chimichurri :)
Michelle